do you think gok wan should be employed as a mental health professional by the nhs or something else in the field of psychology, for both women and mens mental health, and or people like him he only seems to make peopel feel better about who THEY are i commend him for evyerthing hes done, but i think it needs done on a mass scale stop the madness that is this starve yourself to be soemone your not, hate your nose cos it has a bump,think your worthless cos you have cellulite or are too thin with no muscle defenition to make it spiritual, i think this, honestly, would make us spiritually and psychologically stable what about you? i totally agree more too i cant say im any differnt, im just as much a victim of it as anyone else but one thing i know is people that make you fel better about yourself, are very VERY rare so many shows focus on changing yourself in some way, be it excersise, diet, or even more drastic surgery his shows focus on who youare, what you have and accepting it sorry mortoo ;- my bad very true saucy;- thanks for the recomendation eye of the storm;- skye ;- thanks i think he should if not be employed definately be a consult, a standard to set to he seems to change peoples lives, for the better and i think we are in a lot of need of that
Answer: It has always struck me as the ultimate sadness when people say they hate their body
Category: Health Issues; Date: 2010-07-31
Why do I have so many problems?
I am male and 16 and I have so many problems that I was born with I just dont know how to cope with. I was born with VSD and ASD heart problems autism and I think this genetic deletion or something and a lot of health issues like bad neck posture and I hate going to the bathroom, acne and I had some delays because I had the surgeries when I was little. I also have everything negative like blood type -0 and also I suck at everything that I do. I dont know what is wrong with me and why are my problems so severe. I also have bad back posture because I dont like like standing up straight I am also extremely lazy and only want to go on the computer and play videogames even then I suck at them. So I wonder why do I have all these problems. Anyone who tells me to go to a nother site for ex www.pleasegosee,com will be blocked.
Answer: First and foremost STOP BEING LAZY. When you sit, sit up straight - that will help to reduce your back and neck problems. The same thing about standing up. Stand up straight. You were given a muscular system to help support your body - use them As for going to the bathroom, those are normal body functions - get used to it. Doesnt matter if you like it or not - its just one of lifes little things that have to be done or there will be a lot more problems than you have now. Do some excercises that will strengthen your back and neck muscles. Lastly, STOP BEING LAZY
Category: Health Issues; Date: 2010-07-31
Does this remind u of how Cons treated Vietnam vet w/ PSD & Gulf war vets who were exposed to chemical agents?
9/11 responders bill fails, parties point fingers From Jeff Simon, CNN July 30, 2010 9:05 p.m. EDT STORY HIGHLIGHTS Democrats suspend rules for vote, requiring 2/3 majority Bill falls nearly 40 votes short Weiner blasts Republicans for voting "no" because they couldnt add amendments King blasts Democrats for being "petrified" of immigration vote Washington CNN -- A verbal flash-fire erupted on the House floor Thursday night over nine-year battle to pass a benefits bill for emergency workers who were first on the scene of the 9/11 attacks. Frustrated with Republican votes against the $7.4 billion measure because Democrats suspended the rules to prevent them from offering unrelated amendments -- and at the same time requiring a two-thirds majority to pass -- Democratic Rep. Anthony Weiner excoriated the minority party. "Its Republicans wrapping their arms around Republicans rather than doing the right thing on behalf of the heroes," Weiner said during an impassioned, 90-second speech. "It is a shame. A shame If you believe this is a bad idea to provide health care--then vote no But dont give me the cowardly view that Oh, if it was a different procedure." The bill failed to get the 291 votes it needed for passage, polling just 255 votes. But that 255 votes easily surpassed the 218 needed for a simple majority. Democratic New York Rep. Carolyn Maloney -- the sponsor of the bill who has been working on the legislation since just after terrorist attacks -- is working to convince her partys leadership to hold a simple majority vote before the ninth anniversary of the attacks. She told CNN Friday that passing the bill under suspension rules was "a very high bar." "My goal is to have it on the floor again under regular rule, majority rule, which would require only 218 votes. We clearly had the 218 votes to pass it," Maloney said. Texas Rep. Lamar Smith, another Republican, opposed the legislation on the basis of cost. He called the bill an "irresponsible overreach" that "does not contain the necessary protections to safeguard taxpayer dollars from abuse, waste and fraud." "I think this is another example of the Democrats insatiable appetite for the taxpayers hard-earned dollars," Smith said Thursday night on the House floor. But Rep. Pete King, R-New York -- who actually voted in favor of the bill -- tipped the debate in another direction, focusing on the Democratic tactic that kept the Republicans from offering up an amendment on illegal immigration. "But what we are doing tonight is a cruel hoax and a charade," King said from the House floor, every bit as passionately as Weiner would moments later. "Everyone knows that this bill will not get the two-thirds majority required on the suspension calendar. Everyone also knows that this bill would pass with a clear majority if the Democrat leadership would allow it to come to the floor under the regular procedures of the House. "The reason H.R. 847 is not being brought up under regular order is because the majority party is petrified of having its members face a potential vote on illegal immigration," he said. "You can blame it on the Republicans -- and Ive been strongly critical on the Republican position on this issue -- but the reality is you could pass this bill if you wanted to." Kings words set off Weiner. "It takes great courage to wait until all Members have already spoken and then stand up and wrap your arms around procedure," Weiner began. "We see it in the United States Senate every single day when Members say, We want amendments. We want debate. We want amendments, but were still a no. And then we stand up and say, Oh, if only we had a different process, wed vote yes. "You vote yes if you believe yes," he said. "You vote in favor of something if you believe its the right thing. If you believe its the wrong thing, you vote no. King tried to interject, but Weiner refused to yield the floor. "The gentleman gets up and yells, trying to intimidate people into believing hes right -- he is wrong" Weiner shouted. "The gentleman is wrong The gentleman is providing cover for his colleagues rather than doing the right thing" "I will not stand here and listen to my colleague say, Oh, if only I had a different procedure that allows us to stall, stall, stall and then vote no. Instead of standing up and defending your colleagues and voting no on this humane bill, you should urge them to vote yes, something the gentleman has not done," Weiner concluded, punctuating his final words with an index finger in the air. King told CNN Friday that if the bill went to simple majority vote he &qu King told CNN Friday that if the bill went to simple majority vote he "would sit with the Democrats all day and defend the bill against the Republicans." Weiner defended his outburst and acknowledged that many people are unhappy with what they see as partisan bickering in Congress, but he said that many people may not understand whats actually happening. Suspending the rules for certain votes, he said, "is a common procedure ... used all the time." "Frankly, it was beyond a lot of peoples understanding why anyone would want to politicize this and make it a long, drawn-out fight," he told CNN.
Answer: recently the republican party has shown a tendancy to waive flags while being unable to actually do anything that benefits america or those who theyre supposedly "supporting"...time to rename the GOP party as the FOS party...
Category: Health Issues; Date: 2010-07-31
Do you agree with Electric Shock Treatment?
Consider what the currents could do to your body from an electrical outlet. It can effect neurology possibly making a person worse. Afterall, what happens to a person to remove memory... damage to braincells. There is a reason those cells are there & we need them. What if the person controlling that machine was a controlling type person who may actually have psycopathic issues? Perhaps they have a hate for gay men or a hate for women and just like to zap some torture. Consider that it is mostly women who seek professional help and discuss emotional issues. Afterall through abuse, rapes and even from pregnancy they experience depression. In the professional field there is mainly a male ruling in upper power. Once a person is deemed mentally unsound, even if they are telling the truth of issues occurring in their lives then that gives authority to a potential abuser to take reign on their rights. Naturally an abuser may want that person to have a lapse or removal of memory if it wipes away their alleged {but real} affilliation of abusing that person. To keep the ghosts tucked away in the closet.. Is it not an indignity to a person to produce an electrical charge into their body? Sure they think that now people are put to sleep through the procedure that its ok but look at all it has done to the people who have recieved it while awake. Is it not a sadistic discomfort imposed upon a person? What about the people who have underlying heart conditions. An ill thought today could be a well thought tomorrow- until you start messing around with their natural body function. Also with the majority of women being left dealing with all of the family responsability and financial stress, they are more likely to be labelled depressed or suffer a nervous breakdown. Naturally you want these women to seek help through a councelor through difficult matters but then that can be turned against them stealing away their rights. Its a womans natural instinct to cry and react differently that most men.Women also go through more hormonal changes and monthly cycles. People will fear admitting to feeling depressed or being abused if they have the threat of Electric Shock Treatment. So would this not escalate more female abuse? Plus women live longer and go through dementia and are left in care of the mental health association. Where does Mental Health care breach the Medical care. Its a medical scientic fact that women go through more emotions, and depressing situations. Also its proof that we need our cells fully functioning for neurology. Also when you consider the impact on blood pressure and how that can damage us..Ive read that it was 70% of women getting these ECTs. While deemed of unsound mind either the government or some other person can swoop in to steal their assets. Once you damage braincells isnt that making the mind less stable? There was a recent case of a psychiatrist abusing his patients & testifying in court cases. Some of those patients admitting to this were incarcerated. Therefore OPPRESSED. The history of this doctor showed that he was using ECTs on men in the Military who were believed to be gay. Again abuse against femininity.. If a man cries or reacts to stress, through history they too have been labelled as gay, sissies.. mentally ill. Meanwhile they must tolerate the wrongful abuse if someone with more power holds the button. Is this not a sure case of HITLER? Here is the link with a story of the psychiatrist facing 21 cases.. Also consider that there were statistics showing that people in the higher profession and medical field, psychiatrists included often suffer depression themselves and are linked to suicide. Could you see them lining up to try this on themselves? http://ca.news.yahoo.com/s/capress/100730/health/health_crime_psychiatrist_sex Sorry if its long & not in paragraph form. In fact, I wish I could edit spelling errors.. I just get fired up and let it rip.. However, I imagine if it was broken up it would be a longer page.. I really could add much more to this subject matter. I love the detailed comments. To define crazy can be very steep. If you consider back in the history of mental health they were calling people born with defects retarded, otherwise freaks & crazy. Even to be left handed was considered as crazy or evil, to not believe in God or join a church you were consider evil or as being a witch. All of these people would be trailed off to asylums where they recieved this crude treatment. They had to go into redefining crazy over the years since. Although even today like back then they are still making severe errors. People reacting to severe trauma & extensive abuse are considered as crazy when they have no backup. People hide things & lie so the victims get further victimized. This washing of memory or shock treatments are merely a way to force conformity. To power over a person to feel or act as they think they should regardless of the cause. You need to consider the dynamics of situations. The dr. may not have the true remedy & if time heals, time may be needed not this. to fodaddy; allegations of taking property- HISTORY Back in war women held down the fort through depression, many had land. Soldiers lost rights too by being deemed nuts - When they fell apart off to the asylum Thus property got left to government. There are still unclaimed property rights govern. has hold of to this day. A person dies or goes to a hospital then government takes access. A government can rule over family rights. One must pay lawyers for a will or loved ones lose it. Oppressed people cant afford lawyers & often have no capacity to proceed in that thus government claims it. I feel people ALL should have heritage rights to family estates without a will. Divide it between children who have first rights. Not hurl it to government. My written word without a lawyer should mean much as it comes to my children. Immediate family takes precidence fodaddy; we could use a board for this Left handedness was in fact scrutinized in religion. It was seen as a sign of satan/evil. Regardless of the fact more famous artists, inventors, musicians etc were left handed. They carried us forward. In fact they were deemed CRAZY. This does play a fact in old time asylums and filtering heritage rights. Left handers were seen as witches too & hung, burned put in asylums. Who takes over once they claim an entire family is of witches because they dont join church etc.? It went in favor of corrupt others to deem one CRAZY. Using shock made them crazy. Normal left handers were shocked, witches shocked. Anything seen as FREAKS were shocked. Gays SHOCKED. Then there were lefties being accused of being gay too. In some customs using opposite hand meant you got abused. Dirty to use left-evil theyd claim..
Answer: Many years ago my Mother in law suffered some type of depression, the doc had tried all sorts of pills inc valium, nothing worked in fact Im sure the valium made things worse Then my wife was advised to let her mum have this electric treatment. I went with my wife to watch this procedure through a viewers window, I have never seen anything more barbaric, she was strapped down a rubber bung put if her mouth and then got a large dose of electricity pumped into her, she was twitching about as far as she could move. I insisted that my wife and I spoke to the Doctor. I was very angry but kept my cool I asked him to explain the benefit of this shock treatment, he started to waffle he was telling me how many folk felt better after the full course. I was getting very worked up so I started getting very rude. I spelled it out . Why were some folk getting better? He finally admitted no one knew, it couldnt be explained That was it I lost my cool altogether took my wife home and told her to get her Mother out of there asap. If its still the case and the effects cant be explained it should be stopped
Category: Health Issues; Date: 2010-07-31
If someone is suicidal/mental health issues and is missing , do police have to wait 24 hrs before looking?
If someone has a history of mentall illness, suicide attempts, and everything and that person is suicidal and goes missing, or says theyre going to kill themself and than gets up and leaves. Do police have to wait 24 hours before looking for them ? And if this person is known to police for suicide attempts. And would they look and how would they search for them ? This is regarding a friend of mine The police and ambulance have been to her house no less than a dozen times for suicide attempts and shes been involuntarily admitted to the psych ward, shes been in two comas, Intensive Care Unit, Cardiology everything. And a different question, if ever she were to call a hotline to talk to someone and if they called 911 for her for her, and if they couldnt find her, would they look for her? Thanks everyone
Answer: Yes they would look for her immediately in this case because of the obvious possibility of harming herself - just as they would someone with dementia or a child with autism or young age.
Category: Health Issues; Date: 2010-07-30
do u think i will ever have a bf?
im 16 years old somethings about me I am shy i am caring i am sweet unless u get on my bad side i dont smile but i am a happy person i laugh a lot people say im funny but i dont know if thats true i love music i get sick a lot bc i have health issues nothing bad i have adhd i am a leader not a follower i only wear black or dark blue or dark red i dont wear dresses or high shoes i love singing and dancing and acting i am a good friend to people i give people 3 chances if they blow the 3 i walk away i love little kids even tho i dont want to have any i want to adopt i love animals i have a soft spot for animals i have good sense of smell i can smell a food from far away and know what it is i have bad hearing in one ear i like boys and girlsi never told my family yet i never smile in all my life smileing is usless
Answer: suuuree or a girlfriend
Category: Health Issues; Date: 2010-07-30
Why do people judge me before they get to know me?
I dont care what people say about me but i do care when people judge me without knowing me I hate when i hear whispering look at her shes looks scary look at her she too pale and alot more i hear from strangers every were i go just cuz im white as paper bc i cant get tan doesnt mean i dont go out in the sun just cuz i only wear black or dark colors doesnt mean anything just cuz i dont smile doest mean i ant happy they dont know I am shy i am caring i am sweet unless u get on my bad side i dont smile but i am a happy person i laugh a lot people say im funny but i dont know if thats true i love music i get sick a lot bc i have health issues nothing bad i have adhd i am a leader not a follower i only wear black or dark blue or dark red i dont wear dresses or high shoes i love singing and dancing and acting i am a good friend to people i give people 3 chances if they blow the 3 i walk away i love little kids even tho i dont want to have any i want to adopt i love animals i have a soft spot for animals i have good sense of smell i can smell a food from far away and know what it is i have bad hearing in one ear i like boys and girlsi never told my family yet so why do they judge me when they dont know me i been tho alot of sht in my life and i dont need to hear people talking about me
Answer: sweetie , if you know that who even cares what other people are saying about you ? the people who truely matter in your life know what you are all about , the people who dont matter.. who cares about them . they can think whatever they heck they would like You seem like such a cool girl , and if people dont give you a chance , or if people are quick to judge then its their loss keep your head up girl. and i hope everything goes well whenever you feel ready to let your family know that you are bisexual , cause it doesnt even matter
Category: Health Issues; Date: 2010-07-30
Need advice womens health issue.....?
have a milky whitish discharge when i put pressure on both breast more the right than the left. not sure what this is does anyone have any ideas. its not alot sometimes nothing even comes out if i put pressure on them and it only happens when i put pressure on them. it doesnt just leak out. my breast are not swollen or anything about a week or a little more ago this occurred but i also had sore nipples and my breast were a little sore do you think this could be breast cancer? or what do you think it is if not? im not sore or sensitive anymore it only lasted for like 3 days. i thought i was pregnant but i had a regular period this month so i dont think thats what it is. i have no health insurance because ive been a stay at home mother and my husbands job doesnt carry insurance. we dont have the extra money for outside health insurance. im really worried if anyone has any ideas let me know cause i cant really go to the doctor....... I am 23 years old the only other symptoms i had was somedays i just feel extreme tieredness like so tiered i feel like i cant function. RUTH thank you so much
Answer: first of all depend how old r u?or do u have another symptoms?it could indicate some hormonal change in your body.
Category: Health Issues; Date: 2010-07-29
How do i make more friends?
i got 3 friends well kinda i got 2 but i think of jacobmy crush and my 2 friends brother as my friend and im 16 going into 10 grade and its my first year in a real school since 4 grade i was homeschooled since then. I am shy i am careing i am sweet unless u get on my bad side i dont smile but i am a happy person i laugh a lot people say im funny but i dont know if thats true i love music i get sick a lot bc i have health issues nothing bad i have adhd i am a leader not a follower i only wear black or dark blue or dark red i dont wear dresses or high shoes i love singing and danceing and acting i am a good friend to people i give people 3 chances if they blow the 3 i walk away so do u think i will get friends?
Answer: Ok. As I asked in my question about being emo or goth...I got from my answers is to be myself And I will find people in the world who are just like me. From what I have done for myselfIm now a friend magnet is to start off with a simple: "Hello, how are you doing? Im Fine." My name is soinso. And leave it at that--for a while then when you see them again say: Hi again soinso, how is your day going. You know what I mean by this--after 3 months in my school I gained 10 friends Dont be afraid to be you and dont expect the first person you do this on will be your friend. Just meet and greet the person--they maybe will feel comfortable around you--and in time they will be your new friend Oh and heres a tip always talk open minded and give the other person to talk or they wont speak to you again, and dont be in their face 24/7 because they might think you ether are a stalker or a person that wants sexual pleasure from you
Category: Health Issues; Date: 2010-07-29
Holy Shameful, Batman Why do Americans and the government refuse to aid those who first responded to 9-11?
They risked their lives and now they have sacrificed their health to help in that tragic, tragic event. Now Americans and their representative government will NOT help them with their dire health issues. Seriously, what`s wrong with you guys? It seems evidently true that America has lost all form of shame. http://wcbstv.com/local/first.responders.911.2.1833149.html Now you show your true colours. It is sickening how much you guys hate eachother. Americans have no idea what it is to be a unified nation. Pathetic, really.
Answer: Simply put the A$$s that sit in the nice expensive comfy chairs wont get there bonus if they have to give aid to those heros, they hide behind the heros jobs with statements like " they new this would be a hazordous job" , "it is part of the job", "this is what they signed up for". and then dont forget trying to make the heros feel bad with trying to get help for their problems saying things like "the real victims didnt sign up for their illness resulting from these events.... but, you did." EDIT: I agree that this is shamful that we DONT give aid to all involved I would love togo in to a much bigger rant about this subject but I wont. We should give aid to all involved
Category: Health Issues; Date: 2010-07-29
